Better Than Sex Cake
Better Than Sex Cake takes a simple Devil’s Food cake mix to the next level! Soaked in sweetened condensed milk and caramel, then topped with Cool Whip and crushed Oreos, this easy dessert is pure indulgence for any occasion.
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This heavenly Better Than Sex Cake might be even more delicious than our Sex in a Pan dessert! That’s right, this super easy, yet incredibly delicious chocolate cake recipe has become my go-to when I need to whip up a quick sweet treat.
I know the name of this cake is not very kid-friendly. So, around the kids we call it “Better than You Know What Cake” or “Better than Anything Cake”. It’s also commonly known as “Better than Robert Redford Cake” and “Death by Chocolate Cake”. This recipe is definitely not my invention and probably dates back to the 1970s, before I was born. I just had to share, though, because it’s a family favorite. No matter what you call it, it’s definitely a rich, decadent, luscious dessert that you’re going to LOVE!
This was straight up amazing! Not only did it taste incredible, but it was so easy. I made this for a game night with friends and it was a huge hit. We all loved the addition of the Oreo crumbs on top!
— Kate
Ingredients needed
This Better than Sex Cake recipe could not get any easier! This sinfully delicious dessert is made with just 4 simple ingredients, plus your favorite topping. It also only requires a large bowl to mix your cake batter and a 9×13-inch pan for baking the cake. Here’s what you’ll need to make it:
- Box cake mix. The classic Better than Sex recipe uses a boxed Devil’s Food cake mix. You can definitely experiment with different flavors and swap this for German chocolate cake mix or even a white cake mix or yellow cake mix. I like to use Duncan Hines brand.
- Sweetened condensed milk. Cans of this can be found down the baking aisle, just be sure NOT to grab a can of evaporated milk—the cans look very similar. My favorite brand to use is Eagle Brand.
- Caramel sauce. You’ll need approximately 8 to 12 ounces of caramel ice cream topping to mix with the sweetened condensed milk. Pouring this over the top of the cake will make it super moist and flavorful. Feel free to use a squeeze container, if you can’t find this in a jar. In my grocery store, caramel topping is located near the ice cream.
- Cool Whip. I personally love Cool Whip on dessert recipes like this, but if you don’t care for the taste, you can use homemade whipped cream or another whipped topping. Whipped cream will melt quicker than Cool Whip, so I only recommend it if you will be eating this immediately.
- Topping. Traditionally, toffee bits, chopped Heath bar or Skor candy bars are used as a topping. I’m not a huge toffee fan, so I chose to use Oreo cookie crumbs and it was amazing—better than the original! I’ve also used chopped Reese’s peanut butter cups and it was a crowd favorite! Other options are chopped nuts or fresh berries.
Variations
Easily adaptable to your taste, this poke cake is very versatile. Here’s a few ideas for making it your own:
- Chocolate shavings. Copy my chocolate delight dessert and top this with chocolate shavings. To make: use a cheese grater to shred a bit of a chocolate bar. You can also use a knife as seen in this “How to Create Chocolate Shavings” video tutorial.
- Other candy options. Try adding a sprinkle of chopped up Butterfinger candy bar, chopped Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups or chopped Snickers. You can also make it fun for kids by adding mini M&M’s, chocolate chips or even Reese’s pieces.
- Other cookie options. Instead of Oreo cookies, crumble any favorite cookies. Chocolate chip cookies would be lovely. Crisp cookies work best.
- Sauce. Substitute hot fudge topping or chocolate syrup for the caramel sauce.
- Cake. If you want your cake made from scratch, try this homemade Devil’s Food Cake recipe. You can also experiment and use different flavors of cake mix.
Better Than Sex Cake
Ingredients
- 1 (15 ounce) box Devil’s Food Chocolate Cake Mix, plus ingredients listed on the cake box (I like Duncan Hines)
- 1 (14 ounce) can sweetened condensed milk , (I like Eagle Brand)
- 1 (12 ounce) jar caramel ice cream topping
- 1 (8 ounce) container Cool Whip, thawed
- Topping: 1/2 – 1 cup Heath toffee bits, crushed Oreo cookies, or chopped Reese's peanut butter cups
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Instructions
- Prepare the cake mix according to package directions and bake in a greased 9×13-inch pan as directed on the box.
- Remove the cake from the oven and immediately poke holes* all over the top using the bottom of a wooden spoon. It's okay if the holes are on the larger side.
- In a medium bowl, stir together the sweetened condensed milk and caramel sauce, then slowly drizzle the mixture all over the cake, letting it soak down into the holes you created. Allow the cake to cool completely at room temperature, then refrigerate for at least 1 hour.
- Spread the Cool Whip over the top of the cake, top with the Heath toffee bits, crushed cookies or chopped candy bar and refrigerate again for at least 1 hour. Serve cold and refrigerate any leftovers. Enjoy!
Notes
- To make ahead. Make the chocolate cake up to 1 week ahead of time. Allow it to cool completely, cover it well, and store it in the refrigerator or freezer. Allow it to thaw overnight in the refrigerator (or leave it at room temperature for a couple hours) and then continue with step 2, poking holes in the cake.
- To freeze. Allow the cake to cool completely. Cover tightly and freeze for up to about 2 months. Thaw overnight in the refrigerator.
- Leftovers. This cake needs to be refrigerated when not being eaten. Once the cake is topped with the Cool Whip and cookie or candy, it can be kept refrigerated for up to 3 to 4 days.
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How to make better than sex cake
Not only does this cake look fancy and taste incredibly delicious, it’s SO easy! It’s basically a chocolate poke cake infused with a mixture of sweetened condensed milk and caramel sauce, then topped with Cool Whip and cookie crumbles or candy. Let’s walk through all of the steps!
Step 1. Bake the cake in a greased 9×13-inch pan as directed on the box. While it’s still hot, poke holes all over the top with a wooden spoon handle (or chopstick), then pour a mixture of sweetened condensed milk and caramel sauce over the cake, letting it soak in. Cool completely and refrigerate for at least 1 hour.
Step 2. When you’re ready to serve the cake, spread the Cool Whip evenly over the top of the cake.
Step 3. Sprinkle with Heath toffee bits, crushed cookies or chopped candy bar and refrigerate again for at least 1 hour before serving.
Step 4. Serve cold and enjoy!
Kim’s recipe tips
- Poking the holes. Make the holes in the cake while it is still warm because as it cools, the crust on top will crumble more easily as you poke.
- Cool Whip. Be sure to place the Cool Whip in the refrigerator to thaw completely before using, this usually takes about 3.5 – 4 hours. Or leave it out at room temperature for about an hour.
- Serve cold. This cake really tastes best if you let it chill in the fridge a few hours before eating it. Let the flavors soak into the cake, and serve it chilled. It’s perfectly moist, rich and delectable! Because it’s best cold, we love to serve this in the summer!
Frequently asked questions
A better than sex cake is usually made with some type of rich chocolate cake, caramel, toffee, and whipped topping This version includes a sweetened condensed milk-caramel sauce, Oreo cookie crumbs, and Cool Whip.
Yes, this better than sex cake needs to be refrigerated when not being eaten. Make sure to cover the cake in the fridge, so the Cool Whip doesn’t absorb any odors from the refrigerator. Once the cake is topped with the whipped topping and cookie crumbs, it can be kept refrigerated for up to 3 days.
A poke cake typically starts with a box mix cake that you poke holes into while it’s still warm after baking. The holes are then filled with a liquid or filling — like condensed milk, pureed fruit, chocolate cream, or pudding. It’s super easy to make and always turns out moist and delicious.
Storing leftovers
Better than sex dessert is great to make a day or two before you plan to serve it! It gets even more flavorful over time.
- To make ahead. Make the chocolate cake up to 1 week ahead of time. Allow it to cool completely, cover it tightly with plastic wrap, and store it in the refrigerator or freezer. Allow it to thaw overnight in the refrigerator (or leave it at room temperature for a couple hours) and then continue with step 2, poking holes in the cake.
- To freeze. Allow the cake to cool completely. Cover the baking dish tightly and freeze for up to about 2 months. Thaw overnight in the refrigerator.
- Leftovers. This cake needs to be refrigerated when not being eaten. Once the cake is topped with the Cool Whip and cookie or candy, it can be kept refrigerated for up to 3 to 4 days.
Your family will LOVE this better than sex cake—it serves a crowd, which makes it perfect for the holidays or any special gathering. It’s also super convenient that it can be made days ahead of time, so on the day of your party all you need to do is slice, serve and enjoy!
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This turned out so good! I love how easy it is and everyone raved about how delicious it was!
This was straight up amazing! Not only did it taste incredible, but it was so easy. I made this for a game night with friends and it was a huge hit. We all loved the addition of the Oreo crumbs on top!
Yay! So happy everyone enjoyed. This is one of my favorites too!